Because here's what the books don't tell you: Knowing your child needs connection doesn't automatically give you the tools to provide it while staying clearly in charge.
Without those tools, even the most well-intentioned parent ends up feeling reactive, permissive, or constantly questioning themselves.
You're trying to parent differently in a world that still loves sticker charts and timeouts - and you're doing it without the practical guidance you actually need.
Gather is about more than parenting tips and support. It’s a movement. It’s a community of like-minded parents from around the world who understand how difficult it can be to walk the path alone.
Whether you’re headed down the parenting path for the first time, or you’ve been on this road for a while, it’s easy to feel as though the path gets lonely and confusing at times.
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They were biologically normal. Exactly what their children needed.
Today, that baby is a spirited 10-year-old, running wild through our island forest. And while our path has been full of joy, it hasn’t always been easy.
There were nights I lay in the dark, scrolling on my phone as he slept beside me, Googling “is breastfeeding to sleep a bad habit” for the hundredth time.
There were comments that stung:
“Still not sleeping through the night?”
“You’re creating bad habits.”
“She still cries that much over little things?”
“Aren’t you worried he’s too attached?”
Each one, a tiny paper cut to my confidence.
It started in quiet moments beside my sleeping baby—when I’d open my laptop and share what was working for us.
Cosleeping.
Breastfeeding beyond babyhood.
Following instincts over routines.
These weren’t theories. They were lived, messy, beautiful experiences. And they were working.
Not because you need fixing—but because you’re not broken.
Because connection-based parenting should feel natural.
Because you deserve more than just permission—you deserve a village.
But remembering often isn't enough. You need the practical skills to confidently live what you know is right—even when the world questions you.
Gather is the village I wished for in those early days—the one I know you're looking for right now.
You're at a family dinner and someone questions your parenting choices. Instead of shrinking or second-guessing yourself, you smile calmly—because you know you're doing what's right for your child.
Your child has a meltdown in public. Instead of feeling panicked and judged, you stay grounded—because you understand exactly what's driving their behavior and how to support them through it.
You wake up in the morning not reaching for Google, but trusting your instincts—because you finally have the knowledge, the skills, and the village backing you up.
You don't need more theory. You need a roadmap that shows you how to move from second-guessing to steadily leading your family with calm, confident authority.
Here's what that journey looks like.
This Is the Gather Transformation
Get your specific challenges addressed in real-time. No generic advice—personalized strategies for YOUR family's unique situation.
Submit your parenting questions and get personalized audio responses you can listen to anytime, anywhere. Like having an expert natural parenting mentor in your pocket.
Specialized expert trainings you can explore at your own pace - dip in when a topic calls to you, not because you "should."
Private, judgment-free community where you can ask real questions and get support from parents who celebrate your choices.
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Instead of feeling lost between theory and practice, you become:
Discover what it means and tangibly looks like to become a self-led, values-driven parent who’s confident enough in their beliefs to go against the grain.
Lead your family with loving authority that feels natural and unshakeable
Understand what's really driving aggression, anxiety, and resistance, and address root causes
Stay centered in your values even when others don't understand your choices
Maintain closeness while being absolutely clear that you're in charge
Be the steady, unshakeable presence your child can crash their waves against safely
Fewer power struggles because they feel secure with you in charge
Better emotional regulation because you model calm confidence
Deeper trust because they know you can handle their biggest feelings
Stronger cooperation because connection and authority work together
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✦ Beyond Behaviours Foundation Course
✦ Gather Foundations Framework
✦ The Confident Parent Course
✦ Live Coaching with Tracy
(Value: $397)
✦ Private Podcast Support
✦ Expert Workshop Library
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✦ Challenges, guides and cheatsheets
✦ Your Natural Parenting Village
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You'll learn how to be your child's loving leader - connected AND confidently in charge. We show you how to maintain both connection and authority.
These children especially need confident leadership combined with deep understanding. You'll learn how to meet your child's unique needs while maintaining clear boundaries. Many of our biggest success stories come from parents of intense or neurodivergent children.
Gather actually reduces overwhelm by replacing conflicting Google searches with one trusted roadmap. Everything is designed for busy parents—audio content you can consume during daily activities, searchable resources, and clear frameworks instead of information overload.
Absolutely. When your partner sees you handling challenges with calm authority (and sees your child responding better), they become your biggest supporter. Plus, you'll get specific strategies for partner conversations and alignment.
Three key differences:
1) We give you the practical implementation roadmap, not just theory
2) You learn directly from me (Tracy), not multiple coaches with varying approaches 3) We focus on building your confidence as the expert on your child, not creating dependence on external solutions.
Not at all. You know that’s not how I roll. If you join and decide that Gather isn’t quite right for you, you can cancel any time, no questions asked.
Gather is perfect for parents with children between 0-10 years of age.
That foundation lasts forever.
Every day you wait is another day of feeling lost, reactive, and unsure. Every day you wait is another day your child is asking for leadership you don't know how to give.
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