Stop Second-Guessing Your Natural Parenting Choices and Start Leading Your Family with Unshakeable Confidence
"I knew gentle parenting was right for us, but I felt completely lost when my daughter had meltdowns. I'd just stand there frozen, not wanting to use timeouts but having no idea what else to do.
- Sarah, mother of 4-year-old
“Gather gave me the missing roadmap—now I'm the calm, confident leader my child needs."
You've Read All the Gentle Parenting Books. But Real Life? Still Feels Like…
When your 4-year-old hits their sibling and you freeze—because punishment feels wrong but you have no clue what else actually works...
When you're rocking in the dark at 10pm, wondering how bedtime became a 2-hour marathon again...
When your child melts down in aisle five and you feel every judgment while thinking "I know they need support, but what am I supposed to DO here?"
When your family questions your cosleeping or gentle discipline and you start second-guessing everything...
You're not failing. You're just missing the roadmap.
The skills that bridge gentle parenting theory with confident practice.
Because here's what the books don't tell you: Knowing your child needs connection doesn't automatically give you the tools to provide it while staying clearly in charge.
Without those tools, even the most well-intentioned parent ends up feeling reactive, permissive, or constantly questioning themselves.
You're trying to parent differently in a world that still loves sticker charts and timeouts - and you're doing it without the practical guidance you actually need.
That gentle path gets heavy fast when you're walking it alone, without support, without clear direction.
That's exactly why I created Gather.
A loving, supportive, empowering village awaits.
Gather is about more than parenting tips and support. It’s a movement. It’s a community of like-minded parents from around the world who understand how difficult it can be to walk the path alone.
SO LET’S WALK IT TOGETHER
Whether you’re headed down the parenting path for the first time, or you’ve been on this road for a while, it’s easy to feel as though the path gets lonely and confusing at times.
Where instinct & intuition roar
That's why Gather is here—to light the path forward. Inside, you'll find your clear roadmap, guiding you with the practical skills you need, and your village of like-minded parents. Let's walk this path together.
Here's the problem: Most gentle parenting advice stops at "don't punish" and "validate feelings" without showing you how to actually raise with loving authority.
That's the missing piece.
And that's exactly what Gather guides you through.
"I just wish these resources were compulsory to all families. Being a part of Gather gives me a sense of relief that when quirky things arise that I'm finding challenging to navigate, I've got a place of like-minded families that I can say 'this is a real challenge for me' and get help.
- Sammy lee
“Whenever I’ve felt stuck as a parent, Tracy has always been able to point me to resources which really helped me...I'm always astounded as to how much is released and how much is made available to us!”
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They were biologically normal. Exactly what their children needed.
Today, that baby is a spirited 10-year-old, running wild through our island forest. And while our path has been full of joy, it hasn’t always been easy.
There were nights I lay in the dark, scrolling on my phone as he slept beside me, Googling “is breastfeeding to sleep a bad habit” for the hundredth time.
There were comments that stung:
“Still not sleeping through the night?”
“You’re creating bad habits.”
“She still cries that much over little things?”
“Aren’t you worried he’s too attached?”
Each one, a tiny paper cut to my confidence.
How a Sleep-Deprived Mum's Questions Created a Natural Parenting Movement
What began as a personal blog became a global community -millions of parents finding validation that their instincts weren’t just “okay.”
I never set out to build a movement.
It started in quiet moments beside my sleeping baby—when I’d open my laptop and share what was working for us.
Cosleeping.
Breastfeeding beyond babyhood.
Following instincts over routines.
These weren’t theories. They were lived, messy, beautiful experiences. And they were working.
MEET TRACY
I longed for someone to say: I see you. And yes—you’re doing it right. Keep going.
That’s why I created Gather.
Not because you need fixing—but because you’re not broken.
Because connection-based parenting should feel natural.
Because you deserve more than just permission—you deserve a village.
You’re not wrong. You’re remembering.
So if you’ve ever felt judged at a family dinner…
If you’ve Googled through tears at 3AM…
If you’ve wondered whether your instincts are too much…
But remembering often isn't enough. You need the practical skills to confidently live what you know is right—even when the world questions you.
Gather is the village I wished for in those early days—the one I know you're looking for right now.
You're at a family dinner and someone questions your parenting choices. Instead of shrinking or second-guessing yourself, you smile calmly—because you know you're doing what's right for your child.
Your child has a meltdown in public. Instead of feeling panicked and judged, you stay grounded—because you understand exactly what's driving their behavior and how to support them through it.
You wake up in the morning not reaching for Google, but trusting your instincts—because you finally have the knowledge, the skills, and the village backing you up.
Imagine yourself 12 months from now.
That's the transformation waiting for you inside Gather.
Your complete ROADMAP to go from OVERWHELMED to confident natural parenting
Understand Your Child's World
STEP ONE.
Build the Essential Foundations
STEP TWO.
Lead With Unshakeable Confidence
STEP three.
You don't need more theory. You need a roadmap that shows you how to move from second-guessing to steadily leading your family with calm, confident authority.
Here's what that journey looks like.
What Actually Transforms When You Join Gather
Develop the parenting skills to handle any challenging moment with confidence.
Provide the essential ingredients for healthy child development (and easier parenting!)
Develop lifelong skills for parenting authentically in a judgmental world
✨ You'll go from "Why are they acting like this?" to "I know exactly what they need."
✨ You'll go from daily chaos and confusion to predictable peace and connection.
✨ You'll go from constantly doubting yourself to standing tall in your truth.
Sustain and Grow With Community Support
STEP FOUR.
Develop lifelong skills for parenting authentically in a judgmental world
✨ You'll go from doing this in isolation to feeling seen, supported, and sure of yourself—every step of the way.
This Is the Gather Transformation
From uncertainty to unshakable confidence.
From theory to real-life tools. From fear to leadership.
You'RE ABOUT TO become the calm, confident guide your child has always needed.
Get your specific challenges addressed in real-time. No generic advice—personalized strategies for YOUR family's unique situation.
Live Coaching with Tracy
ONE.
Submit your parenting questions and get personalized audio responses you can listen to anytime, anywhere. Like having an expert natural parenting mentor in your pocket.
Private Podcast: Personal Answers On-Demand
TWO.
Specialized expert trainings you can explore at your own pace - dip in when a topic calls to you, not because you "should."
Expert Masterclass and Workshop Library
THREE.
Private, judgment-free community where you can ask real questions and get support from parents who celebrate your choices.
Your Natural Parenting Village
FOUR.
Your Ongoing Support System
Want to be part of the Gather village?
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"I had to take my daughter to the hospital recently because she had really bad croup and she's about to be four. I was telling the doctor...'she's kind of not been drinking much water, but she has been nursing.' And he just gave me this shocked look. I literally thought of every single woman here inside Gather. In my head, I was thinking 'don't even worry about what this random doctor thinks. It doesn't matter.'
- Monika
“Tracy, I had your voice in my head at that moment. And it has helped me have that grounding and that confidence to parent the way that my kids deserve and that I deserve."
Instead of feeling lost between theory and practice, you become:
Meet the Parent You’re About to Become
Discover what it means and tangibly looks like to become a self-led, values-driven parent who’s confident enough in their beliefs to go against the grain.
The Calm in Any Storm
Lead your family with loving authority that feels natural and unshakeable
The Confident Captain
Understand what's really driving aggression, anxiety, and resistance, and address root causes
The Behaviour Decoder
Stay centered in your values even when others don't understand your choices
The Judgment-Proof Parent
Maintain closeness while being absolutely clear that you're in charge
The connected leader
Be the steady, unshakeable presence your child can crash their waves against safely
The lighthouse
Your child transforms too:
Fewer power struggles because they feel secure with you in charge
Better emotional regulation because you model calm confidence
Deeper trust because they know you can handle their biggest feelings
Stronger cooperation because connection and authority work together
What Mothers Are Saying About Gather
Having women have my back and feeling like I'm not alone in making the minutiae decisions and also the big life decisions has changed everything for me."
- Monika
"Gather has really been life altering for me...I credit this community with the confidence that I bring to my mothering now.
Tracy gives the best responses...when she responds with those loving messages, it makes you feel like, 'oh my gosh, thank you.' It's so nice to have Tracy answer and give such good insight that I wouldn't be able to find anywhere else that's personalized.
- Haley
"Tracy gives the best responses... Having your actual questions answered about your actual children and situation - it's just huge.
Before Gather, I would read contradicting advice and feel paralyzed with indecision. Now I have one trusted source of information that feels aligned with who I want to be as a mother.
- Min, mom of a 3-year-old
"When my daughter has a meltdown or refuses to sleep, I know exactly where to turn—and the answers actually work.
I've stopped chasing perfection and started embracing the beautiful mess of conscious parenting. The community in Gather reminds me daily that I'm exactly what my children need."
- Leila, mom of a 6-year-old and 9-year-old
"This membership has transformed not just how I parent, but how I see myself as a mother.
Join Gather today and join a community of like-minded mamas who will be on the journey with you.
No pressure. No overwhelm. Just one clear, trusted place to find exactly what you need when you need it.
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Total Value: Over $4,300
Your investment?
(Value: $397)
Starting at just $18/month
✦ Beyond Behaviours Foundation Course
✦ Gather Foundations Framework
✦ The Confident Parent Course
✦ Live Coaching with Tracy
(Value: $397)
✦ Private Podcast Support
✦ Expert Workshop Library
(Value: $97/month)
✦ Challenges, guides and cheatsheets
✦ Your Natural Parenting Village
(Value: $797+)
(Value: priceless)
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You may also want to ask me these 7 questions
(ALL YOUR QUESTIONS ARE ALWAYS WELCOMED)
You'll learn how to be your child's loving leader - connected AND confidently in charge. We show you how to maintain both connection and authority.
These children especially need confident leadership combined with deep understanding. You'll learn how to meet your child's unique needs while maintaining clear boundaries. Many of our biggest success stories come from parents of intense or neurodivergent children.
Gather actually reduces overwhelm by replacing conflicting Google searches with one trusted roadmap. Everything is designed for busy parents—audio content you can consume during daily activities, searchable resources, and clear frameworks instead of information overload.
Absolutely. When your partner sees you handling challenges with calm authority (and sees your child responding better), they become your biggest supporter. Plus, you'll get specific strategies for partner conversations and alignment.
Three key differences:
1) We give you the practical implementation roadmap, not just theory
2) You learn directly from me (Tracy), not multiple coaches with varying approaches 3) We focus on building your confidence as the expert on your child, not creating dependence on external solutions.
Not at all. You know that’s not how I roll. If you join and decide that Gather isn’t quite right for you, you can cancel any time, no questions asked.
Gather is perfect for parents with children between 0-10 years of age.
My child is 5. What age group is this best for?
SEVEN.
What if I join and I decide it’s not for me, am I locked in?
SIX.
I've tried gentle parenting before and felt like a pushover. How is this different?
ONE.
"How is this different from other parenting memberships?"
FIVE.
"I'm already overwhelmed. Will this add to my mental load?"
FOUR.
"My partner thinks natural parenting is too soft. Will this help?"
THREE.
"What if my child is extra challenging/neurodivergent/strong-willed?"
TWO.
FAQs
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Your child won't stay little forever.
These challenging phases will pass. But the confidence you build as their loving leader? The secure attachment you create through calm, connected authority? The peace you bring to your family by finally knowing how to implement natural parenting in real life?
That foundation lasts forever.
Every day you wait is another day of feeling lost, reactive, and unsure. Every day you wait is another day your child is asking for leadership you don't know how to give.
You have everything you need to be the parent your child needs—you just need the roadmap to get there.
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